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Forgot your password? OK, so we were at New Horizons yesterday, and we had a great time dancing. This is our second time at a swing club, and we are there more to get a taste of the lifestyle rather than do any actual swinging. We went up to the play area wanting to watch, but not really knowing how to approach it. AT NH there are more public areas and less public areas. We saw an attractive foursome playing in a public area and I did not know if it was alright with them if we watched them.

And of course, I thought it completely wrong to ask them while they were having sex. So my question is, if there is a public area of a swing club, how do swingers feel about being watched?

Oklahoma swingers, swinger sex club.

That's what public area are for, for the public to watch. When I and my lady in a public area we want people to watch. It turns her on being watch. I can take it or leave it. Watching is fine in a public area. Asking if you may in, might be appropriate if asked diligently. Asking them to move around so you you can see the porno shots is well Wife and I always play in a public area expecting males or couples to watch or It is ok for you to watch and even or masturbate watching if you are inclined.

Sex is wonderful and open in a public area. If it a public area that yes it is ok to watch. As everyone else has stated that's what they are there for. When we recently went to a club, we were given a guided tour and explanation of each area along with the rules, and any questions we had were answered right away. This helped us relax in this new setting.

In this place, Yes there are areas for private play and areaas with a window or curtain, to be observed, or flat out in the open. The rules were simple, if the door is locked, respect that. If is a semi public, do not enter unless invited. Some folks wanna be watched, and others don't If they didnt want to be watched they would have moved the fun somewhere else. It's ok to watch but do be courteous about it, be quiet, and be together. It's one thing to sit in the room and enjoy each other while watching others, it's another to just sit there like you are watching tv on the sofa at home.

Depends on the swinger and the swinger's mood at the time. Personally, I don't like the idea of being watched by a non-swinger. It would spoil the mood for me. In the past, when engaged in light play with someone in front of others, I haven't asked onlookers if they were there to play or just be entertained. It never occurred to me because I viewed my club as a sort of swingers brotherhood. After reading all these posts though, I confess I've begun to question the "sanctity" of it, for lack of a better word.

To add to this: Please refrain from conversation, it can be very distracting to have conversations going on around and ruin the mood. It doesn't matter if it's related or not, we know what we're doing so don't give us a play by play. Take conversations out of the room though.

Laughing now there a subject in all it's own. About 2 years ago we was at a club in the orgy room and there was a couple on the beds having sex. There was another couple on the couch having sex. There was a man standing in the corner telling jokes to this other couple and they was laughing very loud. The one couple got so frustrated that they just stop and walked out.

As they was walking out the guy made a comment to the guy telling the jokes. As said — it is a public area. If people did not want to be watched they would not be there. In any of our public rooms we always had notices posted as to what was appropriate. As I stated though notices are posted so all onlookers know exactly what is permitted. Watchers not only view but also provide security, if a jerk starts up with the loud distracting chatter, the watchers will call security and have them removed. I was with my husband and three other guys from our group having sex in front of about 12 people.

One young couple had never seen this and was all over one another as they watched. The young couple completely lost it and was almost on the liberator p with us when a few watchers politely escorted them out. After we were done, cleaned up, and dressed, later we ran into the young overly horny couple — lol. The apologized emphatically and went on to explain what had happened. It was their first live experience, though they had watched videos, talked extensively about it for quite some time, and role played all they could by themselves. It reminded me much of my husband and I during the first part of our marriage before we extended to swinging.

So we let them talk. Watching us had gotten them so turned on that they wound up having sex after they were escorted out. They lost control while in the room ready to have at it right there beside us.

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The young wife asked me a zillion questions. They tried to hook up with us but we are exclusive in our group for safety and health reasons and of course no drama. My husband set them up with the perfect young couple we knew, a hot young wife and good looking well built husband. I heard later that they all had a blast and still are.

I really like this question. My wife and I are contemplating visiting the same club. I don't think she can handle any swapping at all. But I know it greatly turns her on to watch others and to be watched. The though of having sex with other people in the room having sex excites her. I just don't want to feel like I am infringing on people at the club that are full swap. I would be apprehensive if a majority of LS people found our way of fitting in offensive or anything If you go and play, even with each other, you'll fit in just fine.

Anybody who is offended is probably just pushy, and should be avoided anyway. I've been a watcher more lately - taking a break, giving my body a time out. Been into watching men doing stuff. A few of our guys had a masturbation party it was pretty cool to watch. My husband didn't go, he doesn't like to watch guys get off all over.

Oklahoma swingers, swinger sex club.

There was some bi stuff as well, pretty hot for guy on guy stuff. I like to watch guys do stuff for certain but I still like mfm the best still. We went to a club that had a two-way mirror set up for one of the rooms. That was pretty cool on both sides! We are brand spanking new to the lifestyle and enjoyed ourselves immensely No one seemed to mind us there, and they were definitely aware of our presence, as my wife likes to get spanked and it seemed that noise startled people into looking at us All in all I don't think anyone minds if you watch them I would keep a discreet distance if you are not playing with someone else.

And I said it that way because I don't want some guy jerking off on top of us:nono: I wouldn't want to be "stealthy" and move in too close for a look, no telling what may happen. There is some etiquette to this. No loud talking. No coaching. No unwanted touching. And so on. Especially from the peanut gallery and sometimes from the participants. And if you break someone's especially the guy's concentration there could be performance issues and then someone might We both love to be watched so on the rare occasions we go to a club we always play in the public room.

Sometimes we are just with each other, sometimes with playmates. I have to agree with the most of the other posts. Although I do enjoy hearing other people talking about how hot we look, it seems to have a negative effect on many men.

Oklahoma swingers, swinger sex club.

Several times, I've started in a public room and then been taken to a semi-private for the guy to perform. We agree that the public rooms are for people who want to be watched. Similarly, the private rooms are for those who do not want to be watched. But, we expect the rest of the folks in the public room to be considerate and to politely ask if they can us. We have no problem telling someone no and have responded many times to polite folks who asked to us. However, as in one club we were at, eight guys gathered around us watching us, reaching out and stroking her without asking. We finally stopped, told them to either leave us alone, or we would have the management kick them out.

They left, loudly complaining. We told the manager about their attitude and they were gone as soon as they could get dressed. At the last house party we attended, I was in the middle of having a good time with a friend in the group room when all of a sudden some unknown male was beside us, saying "nice ass" and stroking said portion of anatomy. I was seriously creeped out, but didn't want to break the mood with my friend, so just ignored him and he went and left.

I realize that people are going to watch in the group room, but really, touching requires permission. In both of our clubs there are private rooms and public playpens. Those in the public area know that people are watching the playpens have CCTV cameras that transmit the vids to the lounge. I usually get into the action in there but occasionally I just sit and watch the activities and never had any complaints.

The clubs have a Singles Night usually Tuesday nights and most of the activity goes on in the playpens!

Oklahoma swingers, swinger sex club.

We go to the same club you do and have been going for the past 8 or 9 years and we are only into watching and being watched with has never been an issue. We have sex in front of other so I don't feel guilty since we have contributed. NH is a very open place and when most people are having sex they are way into wath they are doing to worry about you watching.

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